Kiss Me If You Can

Personally, I think that the act of kissing is so under-appreciated. Some people are in such a rush to get to the sex that the art of kissing gets pushed to the wayside. Making out is so rare these days. I feel that sexually we are all good at something, and as vanilla as it may sound my talent is kissing. Its really one of my favorite things to do.  It may sound cocky, but I feel that my skills were better than many of the guys and girls that I have kissed. I am confident in my skills although I don’t know where they came from. I guess you can call me a kissing enthusiast or a kissing nazi, depending on how you look at it…

If the kiss is bad, there is usually no coming back. I have had some terrible kisses. One of the worst for me probably being when I was about 17, kissed a guy who was horribly sloppy and had a barbell in his tongue that was way to long. I shudder at the memory. Another was with this guy who seemed more interested in flicking his tongue at mine than actually using his lips. Some use too much tongue or too much saliva. It seems that people try too hard, or try too much. Less is more. Its funny how all your attraction for someone can drain completely if the kiss isn’t correct. You are trying to take someone’s breath away, NOT churn their stomach. However, there are some lousy kissers that can get better with the right instructor…

If  the kiss is electric, there is no limit to where things can go. I met this guy on a night out a few months ago and after some conversation and a bit of flirting, he finally kissed me. It was almost perfect, which is a word I don’t use. He had an amazing understanding of my lips. It was the perfect combination of softness and roughness (with a bit of lip nibbling and hair pulling in the mix ). Needless to say, my lips were occupied for the rest of the night. I’ve done my fair share of kissing this year, and so far they have all been quite up to par. I think kissing should be a power play.  With both participants playing the dominant role at some point.

Everyone talks about the first kiss. I however, am a fan of the second kiss. A first kiss is conservative. You’re stepping into unknown territory so obviously you want to tread lightly at first.  The second kiss is much more honest, more intense. Its the bridge to the make out.  That is when you start to read the other person. His hand may move to the small of her back, pulling her closer. Her hands may begin to caress the nape of his neck. I love the buildup, the discovery. When you get to the point where you figure out what they like.

Its crazy how a good kiss is almost like an out of body experience. It can leave the participants dizzy and weak, or hungry with lust. No two kisses are, or should be the same. They should range from lazy to aggressive. The variation should range depending on the participants needs and emotions. A great kiss can make the whole world disappear. A kiss in the right spot whether its on the hand, the shoulder, the neck or the ear can make the recipient lose all rational thought. The anticipation of a kiss is wonderful agony, knowing that its coming or going in for the kill.  Then there is that moment when you pull away panting,  to see that dreamy look in the other persons eyes, only to be pulled back in.

Honestly, with the right kiss there is only so much you can say in words. You just have to feel.

xoxo

~ by corsetncardigan on August 13, 2009.